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 (c)Lisa Regna, A Write to Heal
(c)Lisa Regna, A Write to Heal
"The mystery of our time is the inability of decent people to get angry."-- Eric Hoffer

I'm going to ask tu a pregunta right now, and tu can feel free to answer honestly. Do tu consider yourself a feminist?

After lectura the responses to _lina_'s link, I decided to remind everyone here, particularly women in the western world, what feminism today is really about.

Modern women in europa and North America enjoy a multitude of freedom that often goes underappreciated. Women today are afraid to call themselves feminists because of the negative stereotypes associated with that word. Before I talk...
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posted by Kiniko90
DISCLAIMER: articulo taken from link. Originally from link por link.

Real women do not have curves. Real women do not look like just one thing.

Real women have curves, and not. They are tall, and not. They are brown-skinned, and olive-skinned, and not. They have small breasts, and big ones, and no breasts whatsoever.

Real women start their lives as baby girls. And as baby boys. And as bebés of indeterminate biological sex whose bodies terrify their doctors and families into making all kinds of very sudden decisions.

Real women have big hands and small hands and long elegant fingers and short stubby...
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posted by isabelle_905



1. The guy will be nice to you.
2. He will tell tu that tu did well, even if tu did horrible.
3. He might make fun of you.
4. He’ll want to be your friend.
5. He might compliment tu on your hair, even if tu wear it that way every day.
6. He'll stick up for you.
7. He will start hanging out with your friends.
8. He'll flirt with you.
9. He’ll call tu for no good reason.
10. He'll make eye contact with a happy grin on his face.


1. They always talk about the different varieties o guys.
2. They stare at tu with a smile...
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posted by ddangerouxwoman
Yesterday I slept and I dreamed I was a princess
I dreamed of the power of an educated woman
in the times of knights
And I don't mean what we used to do: embroidery, canto o drawing
no, but to that ancient art that barely lingers between us now,
to make man believe that he is the one who take the reins
We didn't have the freedom to be indomitable, but we have been secret.
We domed the king with kisses and planned alliances and revenge in our beds.
In my dream, my mother, the Queen, taught me to be gentle, to appear submissive but to be daring in secret as far as God would allow me.
To play with my...
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I admit I loved disney Princesses as a little girl, I collected stickers and pictures of my favoritos (Belle and Ariel and Cinderella) and have a lot of the movies.

But one curious thing I started to notice about disney cine as I got older was that there were usually no mothers around, it was almost always a single dad and his daughter trying to get by. If there was a female adult, she was an awful stepmother o a wicked witch.

Here is a lista of disney cine (and many of these are based on folk tales and Grimm fairy tales, but they are the ones disney seems to like to make cine of...) where...
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posted by addi123456
A mothers whisper

In the night when your fast asleep.
Precious eyes closed…and in a beautiful dream.
tu hear a whisper…a soft gental sound.
tu smile…and laugh..nowing mother is around.
Trying not to wake up from this dream of yours.
It makes tu feel safe….all nice and warm.
tu feel a nice, soft, warm hand on your head.
Mother cries… she dead?
tu try to mover to tell her you’re alright.
But tu cant mover at all that night.
Mother sings me a beautiful ryme.
I try to wake up…its about time!
I wanna feel her warm imbrass.
Is it really way to late….
I see an ángel up in the sky…
I see mother standing right by,
I walk to here and give her a hug.
Mother whispers…your in heaven my love(=
Some girls really hate themselves. They think there fat, o to skinny, o they have huge eyes, o they hate there acne. Every girl has a flaw about themselves. YOu wont find a perfect girl. But what i can say is that every single one of tu girls are beatiful. Y? Because tu were created por a wonderful god! He created tu in his eyes. Think of yourself as a painting. YOu see the ones that look like a mess! well because they were made por a famous artist, there beautiful, and unique! LIke you! Whos to say tu arent pretty?The boys? The other mean girls? Who made up the rule that being fat, or...
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A long time ago, I wrote an articulo on link, and the misconceptions about not calling yourself a feminist. Since it was so long, I highly doubt that it was read por its target audience, so I'm going to keep this one very short.

I won't repeat myself on detailing all the different schools of feminist thought, especially because I doubt you're interested. Instead, let me just say this: Feminism is like many religions o philosophies. Just as one person who calls herself a Christian can have vastly different vistas and beliefs por another calling herself a Christian, the same can happen with feminism....
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How to get along with your mother.

This is for all the girls who have a mom.

Mothers…………..Ugh! They drive us crazy sometimes. They ground us for no reason, they yell at us for the littlest things, they imbarrise us, and wont leave us alone! Sometimes tu just wanna yell and scream! Sadly tu cant do that to your mother. But what tu can do is prevent your mom from doing all these things. Before I give tu these tips, im gonna help tu like your mother more. And have a beter relationship with her. Your mom gave birth to you. She fed you, kept tu alive, and raised tu to the beautiful,...
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posted by isabelle_905
One Flaw In Women

By the time the Lord made woman,
He was into his sixth día of working overtime.
An ángel appeared and said,
"Why are tu spending so much time on this one?"
And the Lord answered, "Have tu seen my spec sheet on her?
She has to be completely washable, but not plastic,
have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable
and able to run on diet coca cola and leftovers,
have a lap that can hold four children at one time,
have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart
-and she will do everything
with only two hands."

The ángel was astounded at the requirements.
"Only two hands!?...
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On the Privilege of Being a Woman

January 14, 1997
New York Catholic foros Lecture
- Simone de Beauvoir, in The segundo Sex, wrote that women hate their bodies. Women are physically weaker, less clever, have less power and prestige. For men, procreation is a moment of physical ecstasy, whereas women suffer the discomfort of pregnancy and the agony of childbirth.

- Feminism is a metaphysical revolt against the characteristics of women. Men seem to have all the advantages, and so feminists try to become a caricature of men.

- Historically, women have been looked down on....
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 Movie actress Marilyn Monroe was known as a sex symbol and "blonde bombshell." She's best known for her glamour, her comedic wit, and iconic portrayals of "dumb blondes."
Movie actress Marilyn Monroe was known as a sex symbol and "blonde bombshell." She's best known for her glamour, her comedic wit, and iconic portrayals of "dumb blondes."
we approve that marilyn monroe is one of the sexiest woman ever on earth. what so ever.. she really enjoy her life for being a woman... check some of her quotations a bout being a woman.

Selected Marilyn Monroe Quotations:
• It's all make believe, isn't it?

• If I'd observed all the rules, I'd never have got anywhere.

• I'm very definitely a woman and I enjoy it.

• I don't know who invented high heels, but all women owe him a lot.

• I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it.

• I don't want to make money. I just want to be wonderful.

• I'm trying to find myself...
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This is mainly directed toward those who feel they are too small. I have no experiance with the other side of the issue.

I get somewhat annoyed and insulted when girls talk negatively about their small breast.
Girls wearing a size C think they're flat chested.. I always considered C to be large, but what do I know?

Girls cry over size B

Little girls saying "I'm worried about my body development. I'm 11 years old and I'm only a C cup"

I am small.. I've never come across anyone my age (20) of similar size o smaller than me and I'm not at all exaggerating. Everyone who I see complaining about their...
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posted by isabelle_905
Another email.


She's sitting at the mesa, tabla with her gourmet coffee.
Her son is on the cover of the Wheaties box.
Her daughter is on the cover of Business Week.
Her boyfriend is on the cover of Playgirl.
And her husband is on the back of the leche carton.


"Cash, check o charge?" I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase. As she fumbled for her wallet, I noticed a remote control for a televisión set in her purse. "So, do tu always carry your TV remote?" I asked. "No," she replied, "but my husband refused to come shopping with me, and I figured...
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posted by StarWarsFan7
1.) Eat Chocolate. chocolate helps tu have less stress which will make tu feel better when having PMS.

2.) Try not to act like tu are having your Premenstrual Syndrome. Such as, walking like something is wrong with your pad/tampon. Act like tu have nothing wrong with tu and act natural. Then, no one will know.

3.) When coming back from school/work, go to bed. Laying down helps your period and lets it go más smoothly so tu won't have a delay in your usual period time. It also helps tu relax.

4.) Be careful to not jump so much. It'll make all the blood come out faster and it'll make tu feel, a bit uncomfortable.

5.) Change your pad/tampon daily o hourly.
posted by breebree446
1. My mother taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE.
"If you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning."

2. My mother taught me RELIGION.
"You better pray that will come out of the carpet."

3. My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL.
"If tu don't straighten up, I'm going to knock tu into the middle of siguiente week!"

4. My mother taught me LOGIC.
"Because I dicho so, that's why."

5. My mother taught me MORE LOGIC.
"If tu fall out of that oscilación and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me."

6. My mother taught me FORESIGHT.
"Make sure tu wear clean underwear, in case...
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posted by vider69
If I was dado the choice I would still prefer to be a woman, I believe in equal rights however being a woman is a great thing, there's nothing like having a girls night in (or a girls night out) Watching chick flicks (no matter what age tu are) being independent, as I have found since I am 'happily' divorced from my ten plus año marriage, now I'm enjoying being a woman más than ever. I can do what I like and being in charge of 'the remote' is great, I understand that 'some' people have experienced messy divorces o choose to be in a relationship, but I'm just happy to embrace my 'new life' and I'm loving it, it would be great to have a 'being single' spot (if there isn't one already)
Being a woman to me is:
Changing my hair color whenever I want.
Dressing up o being bummy and enjoying it.
Being feminine.
Watching a 'chick flick' with a glass of red wine and good quality chocolate.
And many, many other things that would take me forever to write.
posted by addi123456
Finding you! And your goal in life(=

You are you. tu came into this world for a purpose, and god has a plan and goal for tu to achieve in life. Sometimes though its hard to find that one thing that god has put tu down on earth for. To find it tu really need to look at yourself, and your dreams, goals, and what tu amor . Look at your talents. Growing up as a teenager, life is rough. There is soo much drama, and school, and pure pressure! tu need to block that out of your life, and focas on what your going to do when your older, and your goal and purpose for being on earth. Because what...
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posted by addi123456
Lets stop bullying

This is for all the kids who get bullied, and for the people who do bully.

Most kids get bullied every single día at school, outside, at the park, o even in there own house. If tu are one of those kids, send me a story and I will make sure to help you(= Y in the world do they bully!? I will tell tu y. 1. Because it lifts them up, it gives them power. If tu want power, don’t bully on a little kid! What if tu were that little child. They just wanna live life the fullest. What if that child died that day, and the only memories he has o his family has is of him getting...
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