consejos Article: Help.?

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Help.?

posted by jazz411

Christopher Orellana. age 16. i've been with him since june 15th, 2010. I amor him to death. [future husband] yeah we've made plans for our future(: but there are soo many things that slowly tear us apart...

He's cheated on me with some girl named "Ariel" -.-
i know that because whenever he texts me, it says *!leira!:D* as his signature :/
he also has her name on myspace -___-
he's still with her to this day. but i amor him soo much that i just wouldn't let him go, even if he has another girlfriend :'(

i have cheated on him too, just to get even with him. it was a wrong thing to do, but i just felt terrible, even that i don't know what kind of things they do together.

so i have 3 boyfriends right now
1. Chris
2. Eduardo
3. Alex

ok, eduardo has been my bf since 10.17.10

and alex since like..10.8.10

i feel bad and yes i regret it, but chris lives in maywood. i don't ! i see alex everyday at school & i talk to eduardo everyday through myspace.
& i talk to chris everyday through texting.

but ugh chris still makes me feel bad that every time i call him, he always tells me these stories
of him and other girls (before i met him) and well it hurts! i don't need to know stuff like that!

i amor his voice, how he says he loves me, but he's a bipolar 2-faced kinda guy :,(

Just please tell me what should i do!

don't say to break up with chris. i amor him too much for that :(

thank you.

btw, u can see the kinda stuff i mean por looking at his myspace.

link

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Alemla Gee this is 1 big drama!!! Y don't u let Chris read this n let him know ur situation -___-

bella01 hey i can see that your problem is really big... i personally think that you will not solve this problem if you dont face the option that maybe there really is someone more deserving to have you. i'm not telling you that you should break up with your bf because i truly see that you really love him. all i want to point out is that you dont have to suffer every minute you have with him. you should have a serious talk with him to ask him what he really wants to happen between you and him. you should also directly ask him if he really truly love you. he's answer may hurt you but at list you will not put yourself to more suffering anymore and i know moving on is very hard especially if you really love that someone but eventually time will ease the pain. i also think you should not have many bf because the way you want to be even with chris. because its like punishing them because of your true bf's fault. it is very unfair to them .you should start to be open to chris that you don't like how he treat you. and let him know your thoughts... please dont hate me because of what i adviced you because it is just what i think you should do in this situation and all i want is for you to have peace and happiness. i wish my advice help you even a little.......be strong i know you are truly a good and loving girl that who ever is your guy is very lucky to have you...

jazz411 thank you(: your advice made me think, i'll try to fix things(:

bella01 your welcome.....i am very glad that i help

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posted by amazondebs

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