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should i cut?

i'm really depressed. i feel alone and don't know what to do. should i cut myself?
 Castalinia posted hace más de un año
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Whoa there, hold on! tu shouldn't do things like that!

I understand that people can feel depressed -- and it's actually a phase in life that people go through -- but tu shouldn't go harming yourself for it. tu haven't done anything wrong; you're lonely and obviously need a companion. I don't mean a boyfriend/girlfriend, but maybe just a good friend to be there with you. Do that as soon as tu can, as it'll help tu feel alright.

I think that tu should also consider seeing someone. Don't take this the wrong way o anything, but tu DON'T want it to get worse. Leaving something like this alone, which seems to be just a "harmless" thought, will manifest into something worse. tu might start to actually cut yourself, and then things will continue to go downhill. Things will stay the same (and most likely get worse) without talking to someone about this. Go see a psychiatrist; they're the ones who are able to administer medicine. They will listen to tu and be able to tell tu what tu can do to help yourself, and give tu the things that will benefit tu to bring tu to a healthier, happier life.

Above all with what everyone's telling you, and to also summarize in ways, DON'T CUT. No one deserves to get hurt if they're feeling depressed, as none of it is their doing. Feelings come and go, but some can be really dangerous. Just make sure to keep looking out for yourself. You're doing good so far; tu came here to seek out help. That's the first step that's usually the hardest: admitting that something isn't right and talking to someone about it. Tell your parents what's going on and make an appointment.

Good luck to you, and I wish to see tu in good health. If tu have any preguntas o need to talk, feel free to message me at any time.
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Thank tu so much. i already think that tu will be great to talk to. thank tu sooo much for your help. it helped me a lot.
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
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Thank tu for your compliments, and you're welcome. Any time.
Chibi-Baka3 posted hace más de un año
stramming said:
NO! I have friends who do that, and only pain comes of it. No "letting out emotions" o any of that crap. Just don't. Read a book o something.
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thanks.
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
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Same!
BeastBoyCahill posted hace más de un año
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O_o they raped my wall...
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
LinkKinuzuma13 said:
ABSOLUTELY NOT.
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i wont'......i hope...
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
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Sriously, don't. Just pray to god, and he'll help tu , even in ways uinexpected. And yeah, my Lema is also my confirmation verse! ^^
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londonsrock said:
Don't cut yourself, that is not going to help you.
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ok. thanks i wont
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
chickencheese said:
I know people have answered this already, but honestly, it's the worst thing tu could end up doing.
I ended up in that habit, and am still working on stopping- it's not just a thing tu do once, if it goes too far it's an addiction. It's not just harmful to yourself either, it hurts all those around you.
It doesn't help anything, and once tu start it's really hard to stop before it goes too far
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YES.
BeastBoyCahill posted hace más de un año
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okay then...um...maybe...maaaaybe i wont cut.....
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
I-Luv-L said:
Don't be dramatic tu should never want to do stuff like that even if your depressed all ya gotta is realize that your important,beautiful and smart.Some día someone will notice that and amor tu for what tu are and who tu are.They will be there for tu everyday all day.That person may come today,tommmorrow,a week from now o a mes but remember this.Don't cut yo
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Thanks. That helps a lot. i guess that amor is what i need. o just someone to be there for me always. i feel alone so it made me empty.
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
4422 said:
no dont disfigure ur body so u wont regret it later
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Okay. i had a friend who cut herself and she dicho it helped. But the scars were scary...
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
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did u want 2 take dat risk
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vampiressJazz said:
DONT!
I learned the hardway when I was 14, it doesnt work it makes tu feel worse and if people find out ... You'll get teased a lot( tu don't want to be called an emo) if tu feel depressed then write in a diary o talk to someone who will listen no matter what.
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Okay. i'll try to do that. thank you. and por the way, i already get called emo all the time
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
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It's not nice is it, and it would be even worse if it was true wouldn't it? If its not the truth tu can ignore it but if it is.... It's kind of hard not to.
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darkwave said:
No.
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okay...
Castalinia posted hace más de un año
Prawls8612 said:
Please don't!!! I know someone who cut herself and ended up in the hospital. Pray, read, watch funny videos, o read comics. Do things that make tu happy :) Pain is never the answer.
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para-scence said:
No, don't. Trust me, I know from experience. It doesn't make anything better. In fact, sometimes it just makes it worse. It's not worth it at all. Whatever you're going through, you'll get through it. tu can message me o something if tu need to talk. :)
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also, think of your friends. I have a friend who did it, and even though i did too, it made me physically sick to see her all cut up like that. And she didn't even have many scars. It's scary, and your friends would worry. Just go to your friends o anyone else who can help you. :)
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